I wish this is not true, but you have already left me. The time that we spent together, from the first time we met, till we fell in love, how many spring, summer, fall and winters have we spent together? The wonderful memories you left for me! You once said friends are your most precious treasures, whenever any of your friends need help, you will never hesitate to lend a helping hand. When your friends are upset, you will grieve with them. Your willingness to share in their grief and joy with them made you many friends. Friends who loves soccer, friends who loves to drink and friends who became business partners!

　　I often protest that you spent more time with your friends than you spent with me, but honestly, deep down, I admire your big heartedness toward your friends. Your friends have also become my treasures, enriching my life! You are my true love, to your friends, you seems like someone who never runs out of things to say, to me, you are a man of few words! When we were courting, there were never flowers or candles, only a sunshine filled football field; no whispers of sweet nothings to my ear, just a sense of your silent concern and support for me.  You like to make me laugh, unknowingly I started to lean on you for support.  In times of difficulty, you are there, when I am lonely, you are there. Happiness is your hand in mine, strolling along the football field with the sun setting.

　　All these years, you face life a positive attitude; every defeat became merely a lesson learnt! Everything you do, you tackle it like a true sportsman, un-weaving in your approaching, never backing down! Whenever I met with any adversity in my life, you will never fail to encourage me! Never give up became your motto; you are the model I strive to become.

　　You have always treated others with respect and sincerity, in your work, honesty, truth and perseverance. Being together and being in love, there are many ways, to those who love you and who called you their friends will continue to testify your love for life! As your other half, I feel proud for you! Na Lan Rong Ruo of the Qing dynasty said : “Dreams are hard to keep, incomplete poems are hard to complete. To win is only to cry again. “ He lost his wife and I lost my husband, though we are from different era in time, the pain is still the same. I hope that you have finish all that you set to do in this world, may your heart be free of all burdens, free at last.

Michelle Yim