米雪对婚姻、小孩的看法

HOW MICHELLE VIEWS HAVING CHILDREN AND MARRIAGE…

       米雪之所以一直保持独身的原因:"我很享受自己，亦不想有人左右我自己，而且见到些朋友的离离合合，何必呢？我觉得就算是结了婚的夫妻、就算是一起住的兄弟姊妹，都要有各自的空间."

      主持:"但是我觉得一个女性，要经过生儿育女才能算是个真正的女人啊."

      米雪:"我亦曾经有过这样的冲动，想想:(声音温柔）结了婚，做个妈咪，生个象自己的(一个小黄蓉，见到她如同见到自己),美过我的就更好了,可以帮她打扮。但想深一层，（变得略带激动）如果她气我，我岂不很惨?!"

       米雪：“我很小时已经决定不要小朋友了。我想到还有许多事要学要做，我是个对家庭很有责任感的人，如果有个家庭，我会放很多时间下去，又要照顾他们，even 我的哥哥妹妹有什么事，我都会很担心，若是自己的那个那就更加担心，这样真的没有自己的时间，没有自己那part了。我不是说婚姻生活会不开心，问题是有了个家庭，会变得没自己的空间。”

HOW MICHELLE VIEWS HAVING CHILDREN AND MARRIAGE…

The reason why Michelle still remains single is, “I enjoy being one. I don’t like marriage to bind me. I dislike the scene of parting. I felt that even if husband and wife, or siblings who live together, surely wanted to have their own space. 

Host said, “But I felt that a female has to undergo marriage, childbirth, then can be considered a real woman.”

“I did have such a thinking. If I were to marry, had a child that bore my look. If she was to prettier than me, that will be great. I can help her to do make up. But think twice, what if she angries with me, then I will be doomed.”

“I had already don’t want to have children since young. I am a person with responsibility. If I were to have a family, I will concentrate on them. I will worry about my siblings if they have problems. But my children will be my most worrying one…. If this carry on, I will not have my own time. All I do was to worry this, worry that. I am not saying marriage life is not good, but the problem lies will be I am the one to tire myself out just to worry about them. And I will have no time after having a family.”